Family to us - Importance of family | by - Khushi Vashishtha

HEY GUYS...

WELCOME TO MY FIRST BLOG⇉

LET ME INTRODUCE MYSELF.!!

I'm KHUSHI VASHISHTHA,  a 16-year-old teenager .I was super confused about the topic of my first blogggggg .. then I thought why don't my first blog should be about the KEYWORD/word that I love the most i.e. FAMILY.   

                    so, here we go..

FAMILY TO ME -

Definition of a Family is like having someone to love you unconditionally in spite of you and your shortcomings. Family is loving and supporting one another even when it's not easy to do so. 

Being a teenager we love spending time with our friends and the main excuse to talk to them most of the time is that they understand us. but later in most of the cases, they backstab us. 

This happens to me alot of time. And i guess its normal nowadays , At this point of life we get extremely hurt ,

#we get frustrated 

#became silent

#get angry on little tiny thing

#starts blaming ourselves for every situation. 

And what not 

All this while we got busy in all this shit that we forgets about family and those family happy moments. 

Does this happened to you, suppose you and your family are having dinner together, everyone is in happy mood but amongst all of them you are the only one with fake smile , not paying attention to what's happening around.  Just thinking about random things. 

Here we start doing mistake.

We ignore our loved ones

We try to make new friend , tries to make lovely group . 

But we forget that everything is temporary. 

Your Friends are with you only when you are helpful to them .

Let me give you an example-

Do you remember your standard 1 benchmate , are you in contact , do you have same friendship bond now ? 

Are you friends with your 10 standard bff ? If yes  , do you talk to him/ her every day and do crazy things together.?

Obvious answer is No .

Reason might be you guys dont live in same city , dont study in same college etc etc..

No  one is gonna stay forever and loves you the same way.

But during all this while does your parents love changed? Do they intentionally hurt you.

NEVER..

Only person in this world who is permanent in your family .

Friends come and go. I am not saying that you are supposed to not spend time with them or you shouldn't make friends. 

Whole point is just keep this thing in mind that they are your friends at that point of time .

PS- ITS MY PERSONAL THINKING! WHICH AM PUTTING IN WORDS.

You are a gem to your parents.  Dont ignore them , all they need is your love. Your happiness  . Even if they are busy scolds you never get angry on them 

Family time is important because it allows family members feel loved and secure. 

Thank you 

Have a nice day ahead.